Wouldn’t it be great if all improvement in our lives were simply done just by saying, “I want it to be this way”… or “I don’t want to be poor”… or “I don’t want to be overweight”…
So many people don’t like or don’t want to live with the problems they currently have, they complain about their current situation and often say things like… “I never win” .. or “he or she is just very lucky” or “I can’t do that because I just don’t like doing it”..
Then there are the people that say that it’s not right to complain, to accept that that’s life, it’s just the way it is…. I’ve often heard the statement….”live in the Now”….
Hmmm.
In my mind, I’m not just unlucky to have multiple sclerosis, I don’t make statements that it’s completely unfair as I loved to be physically active but can’t now because of MS.. why didn’t it happen to the other guy, the one that’s a couch potato instead of me…
No, what I say is ” if you or I don’t like or don’t want things to be a certain way, then do something about it…
It’s not easy making big changes, it doesn’t just happen, you have to work at it to make significant changes, changes that make tangible long term improvements.
Anything!!!! Anything you genuinely want can happen, but you…yes you have to believe it… not just think about it or hope for it or wish for it but BELIEVE IT…
If you truly want it, if you believe it you’ll do Whatever it takes…
No, I don’t like the taste or whatever reason the looking for excuses mind concoct’s.
As far as the “Living in the Now” people are concerned…thats just a trendy way of giving up…
Me…. I’d rather die trying than giving up without a fight…